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男人不該說(shuō)的話
“我們分手吧”--這五個(gè)字該由女人來(lái)說(shuō)。
即使是你首先不愛(ài)她,你也該有風(fēng)度的讓她提出分手。
男人慣常做的,就是對(duì)她越來(lái)越冷淡,讓她自己覺(jué)得沒(méi)趣,然後說(shuō):“我們分手吧!
女人會(huì)感激男人把這五個(gè)字留給她來(lái)說(shuō)。她會(huì)永遠(yuǎn)記的是她首先不要你了。這樣的話,她也不會(huì)那么恨你。
“我不愛(ài)你了”--這五個(gè)字更應(yīng)該留給女人來(lái)說(shuō)。
男人說(shuō)這五個(gè)字太殘忍。這么殘忍的事也做的出來(lái),不是太沒(méi)風(fēng)度了嗎?
況且,男人說(shuō)出這五個(gè)字,是很危險(xiǎn)的,憤怒的女人會(huì)給他一巴掌。
為人為己,男人還是應(yīng)該禮讓一下,把這五個(gè)字讓給女人來(lái)說(shuō)。
“我永遠(yuǎn)恨你”--這五個(gè)字也該留給女人來(lái)說(shuō)。
堂堂男子漢,哭哭啼啼的對(duì)著女朋友說(shuō):“我永遠(yuǎn)恨你!倍嗝措y看?
男人只能夠說(shuō):“我永遠(yuǎn)愛(ài)你!
“你忘記我吧”--這五個(gè)字,男人常常搶著說(shuō)。你以為自己是什么?你以為我無(wú)法忘記你嗎?
你沾沾自喜的令人討厭。這五個(gè)字,該留給女人來(lái)說(shuō),讓她贏回一點(diǎn)尊嚴(yán)。
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那男人該說(shuō)什么?
男人只有五個(gè)字可以說(shuō) --“都是我的錯(cuò)! 1.“我當(dāng)年……”
說(shuō)這話的男人,很容易讓人想到,這人肯定現(xiàn)在很“面”。因?yàn)楹脻h不提當(dāng)年勇,提起過(guò)去兩眼發(fā)亮的男人,明擺著是現(xiàn)在信心不夠。這句話就像標(biāo)貼一樣,在告訴別人:我現(xiàn)在不行了。
2.“你這是怎么搞的?我早就知道這不行。”
通常,這句話是要被吼出來(lái)的,而且還要把桌子拍得山響。但見(jiàn)慣了這種場(chǎng)面的妻子都知道這只是他虛張聲勢(shì)時(shí)的常用語(yǔ),往往是自卑感的另一種表現(xiàn),說(shuō)這話的男人因?yàn)楣首魃駳舛岣吡俗约旱挠薮蓝取?/p>
3.“不信咱們打賭!”
男人天性-愛(ài)賭。如果男人說(shuō)要與你打賭時(shí),那并不證明他就一定有把握,因?yàn)樗麄冇袝r(shí)更容易相信僥幸。假如獎(jiǎng)券中獎(jiǎng)的比率與車禍的比率差不多,他不認(rèn)為自己會(huì)罹車禍,卻相信會(huì)中獎(jiǎng)。而且還常夢(mèng)想會(huì)忽然發(fā)財(cái)。
4.“這頓飯還是我請(qǐng)吧!誰(shuí)跟我爭(zhēng)我就跟誰(shuí)急!”
家里其實(shí)只剩一百元錢了,他在說(shuō)此話時(shí),心里在不斷祈禱,爭(zhēng)吧,你快跟我爭(zhēng)吧,求求你了。這種事不失面子地逃過(guò)去了,心情也不會(huì)太好,若回家再遇河?xùn)|獅吼,肯定很委屈。因?yàn)樗麄冏罴芍M被看成小氣,想來(lái)不無(wú)可悲可憐的丑角意味。
5.“沒(méi)問(wèn)題,我能修好。”
無(wú)論是家里的排水管道、自行車輪胎,還是立體聲音響,好像他什么都會(huì)修,否則就會(huì)失掉男子漢的尊嚴(yán)。這就是家里的電器常常會(huì)莫名其妙地出毛病的原因。
6.“我沒(méi)事兒。”
悲傷、沮喪、幻滅的感覺(jué),男人也會(huì)有。可是男人們卻往往害怕暴露自己的軟弱,哪怕是對(duì)自己最親近的人。對(duì)某些男人而言,流血是光榮的,拒絕用創(chuàng)可貼是神圣的。
7.“我是一個(gè)不修邊幅的人,別指望我打扮給你看!
男人們往往會(huì)愚蠢地以為只有邋遢的樣子才會(huì)顯得有男子氣,其實(shí),越來(lái)越多的女人在擔(dān)心,過(guò)于不修邊幅的男人一定是懶惰而又缺乏自尊。
8.“我是……最棒的吧?”
男人們永遠(yuǎn)都?jí)粝胱约菏桥嗣媲皼_鋒陷陣的勇士,尤其是在自己喜歡的女人面前?伤麄冞偏偏有一個(gè)致命的弱點(diǎn),那就是愿意跟同類比較。面對(duì)男人們這個(gè)愚蠢的問(wèn)題,女人們總是感到很為難,如果如實(shí)相告,難免會(huì)挫傷他自尊心,但即使違心恭維一番,也不會(huì)帶來(lái)好結(jié)果。
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非常經(jīng)典有深度的電影英文臺(tái)詞
1.一個(gè)人總要走陌生的路,看陌生的風(fēng)景,聽(tīng)陌生的歌,然后在某個(gè)不經(jīng)意的瞬間,你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn),原本是費(fèi)盡心機(jī)想要忘記的事情真的就那么忘記了。
One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.
2.幸福,不是長(zhǎng)生不老,不是大魚大肉,不是權(quán)傾朝野。幸福是每一個(gè)微小的生活愿望達(dá)成。當(dāng)你想吃的時(shí)候有得吃,想被愛(ài)的時(shí)候有人來(lái)愛(ài)你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.
3.愛(ài)情是燈,友情是影子,當(dāng)燈滅了,你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)你的周圍都是影子。朋友,是在最后可以給你力量的人。
Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.
4.我愛(ài)你不是因?yàn)槟闶钦l(shuí),而是我在你面前可以是誰(shuí)。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
5.愛(ài)情,要么讓人成熟,要么讓人墮落。
Love makes man grow up or sink down.
6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重,舉得起放不下的叫負(fù)重?上,大多數(shù)人的愛(ài)情,都是負(fù)重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.
7.我們每個(gè)人都生活在各自的過(guò)去中,人們會(huì)用一分鐘的時(shí)間去認(rèn)識(shí)一個(gè)人,用一小時(shí)的時(shí)間去喜歡一個(gè)人,再用一天的時(shí)間去愛(ài)上一個(gè)人,到最后呢,卻要用一輩子的時(shí)間去忘記一個(gè)人。
We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.
8.一個(gè)人一生可以愛(ài)上很多的人,等你獲得真正屬于你的幸福之后,你就會(huì)明白一起的傷痛其實(shí)是一種財(cái)富,它讓你學(xué)會(huì)更好地去把握和珍惜你愛(ài)的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.
9.年輕的時(shí)候會(huì)想要談很多次戀愛(ài),但是隨著年齡的增長(zhǎng),終于領(lǐng)悟到愛(ài)一個(gè)人,就算用一輩子的時(shí)間,還是會(huì)嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個(gè)人,體諒這個(gè)人,直到愛(ài)上為止,是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.
10.當(dāng)明天變成了今天成為了昨天,最后成為記憶里不m.okwtrl.com再重要的某一天,我們突然發(fā)現(xiàn)自己在不知不覺(jué)中已被時(shí)間推著向前走,這不是靜止火車?yán),與相鄰列車交錯(cuò)時(shí),仿佛自己在前進(jìn)的錯(cuò)覺(jué),而是我們真實(shí)的在成長(zhǎng),在這件事里成了另一個(gè)自己。
When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.
11.離開(kāi)我就別安慰我,要知道每一次縫補(bǔ)也會(huì)遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.
12.曾經(jīng)擁有的,不要忘記。不能得到的,更要珍惜。屬于自己的,不要放棄。已經(jīng)失去的,留作回憶。
Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.
13.我喜歡并習(xí)慣了對(duì)變化的東西保持著距離,這樣才會(huì)知道什么是最不會(huì)被時(shí)間拋棄的準(zhǔn)則。比如愛(ài)一個(gè)人,充滿變數(shù),我于是后退一步,靜靜的看著,直到看見(jiàn)真誠(chéng)的感情。
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.
14.男人的愛(ài)是俯視而生,而女人的愛(ài)是仰視而生。如果愛(ài)情像座山,那么男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。
Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.
15.好的愛(ài)情是你通過(guò)一個(gè)人看到整個(gè)世界,壞的愛(ài)情是你為了一個(gè)人舍棄世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.
16.在自己面前,應(yīng)該一直留有一個(gè)地方,獨(dú)自留在那里。然后去愛(ài)。不知道是什么,不知道是誰(shuí),不知道如何去愛(ài),也不知道可以愛(ài)多久。只是等待一次愛(ài)情,也許永遠(yuǎn)都沒(méi)有人。可是,這種等待,就是愛(ài)情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.
17.有誰(shuí)不曾為那暗戀而痛苦?我們總以為那份癡情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我們才發(fā)現(xiàn),它一直都是很輕,很輕的。我們以為愛(ài)的很深,很深,來(lái)日歲月,會(huì)讓你知道,它不過(guò)很淺,很淺。最深和最重的愛(ài),必須和時(shí)日一起成長(zhǎng)。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.
18.在這個(gè)世界上,只有真正快樂(lè)的男人,才能帶給女人真正的快樂(lè)。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness
19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果沒(méi)有感性,就要理性;如果沒(méi)有理性,就要有自知之明;如果連這個(gè)都沒(méi)有了,她只有不幸。
If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
20.一段不被接受的愛(ài)情,需要的不是傷心,而是時(shí)間,一段可以用來(lái)遺忘的時(shí)間。一顆被深深傷了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.
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