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過(guò)年對(duì)父母說(shuō)的話
很久以來(lái)，我看了太多的電視廣告和公益宣傳都把老人當(dāng)成了乞討親情的乞丐而刻意渲染一種孤獨(dú)的悲情，兒女卻成了可以施舍親情的施主，逢年過(guò)節(jié)便要出來(lái)做做善事。 由衷地為那些“可憐的父母”感到一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)悲哀。不禁要問(wèn)，難道上了年紀(jì)與我們咫尺天涯的父母，就真的只會(huì)是向我們索取的乞丐，甚至是一個(gè)難以甩掉的包袱?難道我們成年之后就再?zèng)]有從父母身上得到過(guò)精神上的慰籍或者支持，甚至是物質(zhì)上的幫助?難道我們這些兒女能夠做的，就僅僅是回家轉(zhuǎn)轉(zhuǎn)，吃吃看看? 很多人都不敢否定成年甚至成家以后依然對(duì)父母的依賴。不說(shuō)精神上，很多人還沒(méi)過(guò)斷奶期，就說(shuō)在經(jīng)濟(jì)方面，我們這個(gè)社會(huì)還存在著大量的工作無(wú)著的啃老族，即使已經(jīng)有固定工作，仍然要靠家里經(jīng)濟(jì)接濟(jì)的，也并不在少數(shù)。還有很多外出掙錢的年輕父母，直接就把孩子扔給年邁的老人帶，除了定期寄點(diǎn)錢回去，一切就撒手不管了。即使是在同城而居，又有多少老人要承擔(dān)接送孫子孫女上下學(xué)的義務(wù)? 盡管我們有各種諸如為了謀生，為了給親人謀取更大的幸福，甚至是為了祖國(guó)、為了人民的事業(yè)等等各種堂堂正正、高尚無(wú)私的理由，但面對(duì)已經(jīng)歷經(jīng)坎坷、飽經(jīng)磨難卻還要為自己的兒女奔波操勞的父母，我們就真的可以心安理得地唱著那首【常回家看看】，以慈善人士自居，讓父母“誠(chéng)惶誠(chéng)恐”地接受親情施舍嗎?是我們沒(méi)有擺正心態(tài)，還是沒(méi)有學(xué)會(huì)感恩? 忙于工作的你們，回家時(shí)間不多，更難得和父母聊聊天、談?wù)勑摹＿^(guò)年了，回家多陪陪父母，對(duì)父母說(shuō)出心里最想說(shuō)的話，對(duì)于父母來(lái)說(shuō)，這可能是最好的新禮物了。
今年過(guò)年是我近幾年在家待得最長(zhǎng)的一年，長(zhǎng)期在外工作，一直忙忙碌碌，加上思想活躍又不安份的我，挺喜歡過(guò)節(jié)外出走走，而今年是大年三十回家，待到了昨天下午才回，還是今天要在單位值班。之所以老老實(shí)實(shí)呆在家過(guò)年，是因?yàn)槿ツ晔莻�(gè)極不平凡的一年，發(fā)生很多變故，帶來(lái)不少創(chuàng)傷，也許人一旦有了憂愁，本能反應(yīng)就想起世界上最親近的人----父母，這時(shí)的我暖暖的…
去年，生活的重壓，破碎的情感，讓我如冷水心如殘灰，讓我淌成一條沉默的河。與父母圍坐在一起，冬夜的靜謐和淡淡的溫馨籠罩著這一片小小的空間，火盆中燃燒的木炭偶爾發(fā)出的響動(dòng)，更增濃了這種氣氛。
“啊!外面下雪了。”坐在火盆邊烤火的母親自言自語(yǔ)地嘟噥了一句。
“是呀，難怪這么靜呢!”父親靠著母親身邊坐著，將一雙干枯的手伸到火盆上。
望著雙親那寫滿滄桑的臉，有很多話想說(shuō)，但欲言又止，那是總覺(jué)得愧對(duì)她們，長(zhǎng)這么大還把自己的煩惱轉(zhuǎn)移給父母，讓她們操不完的心，故而沉默…
直到昨天下午回城，太陽(yáng)掛在西邊的天幕上，站在車旁的父母仍在叮囑：“身體要緊，那個(gè)事你想清楚后自己做主，我們不干涉。”此時(shí)我內(nèi)心卻有一種說(shuō)不清的感動(dòng)或是心痛。
車子開(kāi)出好遠(yuǎn)了。我從反光鏡里看到父母親還在向遠(yuǎn)去的“本田”揮手!淚水情不自禁地涌了出來(lái)，心里突然一動(dòng)，名義上我是在家陪伴雙親過(guò)年，可除了能為她們倒杯水掃掃地外，還做了什么?
敬愛(ài)的爸媽：過(guò)年，太多的話想對(duì)你們說(shuō)，但說(shuō)什么是好呢?
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非常經(jīng)典有深度的電影英文臺(tái)詞
1.一個(gè)人總要走陌生的路，看陌生的風(fēng)景，聽(tīng)陌生的歌，然后在某個(gè)不經(jīng)意的瞬間，你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)，原本是費(fèi)盡心機(jī)想要忘記的事情真的就那么忘記了。
One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.
2.幸福，不是長(zhǎng)生不老，不是大魚(yú)大肉，不是權(quán)傾朝野。幸福是每一個(gè)微小的生活愿望達(dá)成。當(dāng)你想吃的時(shí)候有得吃，想被愛(ài)的時(shí)候有人來(lái)愛(ài)你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.
3.愛(ài)情是燈，友情是影子，當(dāng)燈滅了，你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)你的周圍都是影子。朋友，是在最后可以給你力量的人。
Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.
4.我愛(ài)你不是因?yàn)槟闶钦l(shuí)，而是我在你面前可以是誰(shuí)。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
5.愛(ài)情，要么讓人成熟，要么讓人墮落。
Love makes man grow up or sink down.
6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重，舉得起放不下的叫負(fù)重。可惜，大多數(shù)人的愛(ài)情，都是負(fù)重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.
7.我們每個(gè)人都生活在各自的過(guò)去中，人們會(huì)用一分鐘的時(shí)間去認(rèn)識(shí)一個(gè)人，用一小時(shí)的時(shí)間去喜歡一個(gè)人，再用一天的時(shí)間去愛(ài)上一個(gè)人，到最后呢，卻要用一輩子的時(shí)間去忘記一個(gè)人。
We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.
8.一個(gè)人一生可以愛(ài)上很多的人，等你獲得真正屬于你的幸福之后，你就會(huì)明白一起的傷痛其實(shí)是一種財(cái)富，它讓你學(xué)會(huì)更好地去把握和珍惜你愛(ài)的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.
9.年輕的時(shí)候會(huì)想要談很多次戀愛(ài)，但是隨著年齡的增長(zhǎng)，終于領(lǐng)悟到愛(ài)一個(gè)人，就算用一輩子的時(shí)間，還是會(huì)嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個(gè)人，體諒這個(gè)人，直到愛(ài)上為止，是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.
10.當(dāng)明天變成了今天成為了昨天，最后成為記憶里不m.okwtrl.com再重要的某一天，我們突然發(fā)現(xiàn)自己在不知不覺(jué)中已被時(shí)間推著向前走，這不是靜止火車?yán)铮c相鄰列車交錯(cuò)時(shí)，仿佛自己在前進(jìn)的錯(cuò)覺(jué)，而是我們真實(shí)的在成長(zhǎng)，在這件事里成了另一個(gè)自己。
When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.
11.離開(kāi)我就別安慰我，要知道每一次縫補(bǔ)也會(huì)遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.
12.曾經(jīng)擁有的，不要忘記。不能得到的，更要珍惜。屬于自己的，不要放棄。已經(jīng)失去的，留作回憶。
Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.
13.我喜歡并習(xí)慣了對(duì)變化的東西保持著距離，這樣才會(huì)知道什么是最不會(huì)被時(shí)間拋棄的準(zhǔn)則。比如愛(ài)一個(gè)人，充滿變數(shù)，我于是后退一步，靜靜的看著，直到看見(jiàn)真誠(chéng)的感情。
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.
14.男人的愛(ài)是俯視而生，而女人的愛(ài)是仰視而生。如果愛(ài)情像座山，那么男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多，而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。
Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.
15.好的愛(ài)情是你通過(guò)一個(gè)人看到整個(gè)世界，壞的愛(ài)情是你為了一個(gè)人舍棄世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.
16.在自己面前，應(yīng)該一直留有一個(gè)地方，獨(dú)自留在那里。然后去愛(ài)。不知道是什么，不知道是誰(shuí)，不知道如何去愛(ài)，也不知道可以愛(ài)多久。只是等待一次愛(ài)情，也許永遠(yuǎn)都沒(méi)有人。可是，這種等待，就是愛(ài)情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.
17.有誰(shuí)不曾為那暗戀而痛苦?我們總以為那份癡情很重，很重，是世上最重的重量。有一天，暮然回首，我們才發(fā)現(xiàn)，它一直都是很輕，很輕的。我們以為愛(ài)的很深，很深，來(lái)日歲月，會(huì)讓你知道，它不過(guò)很淺，很淺。最深和最重的愛(ài)，必須和時(shí)日一起成長(zhǎng)。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.
18.在這個(gè)世界上，只有真正快樂(lè)的男人，才能帶給女人真正的快樂(lè)。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness
19.女人如果不性感，就要感性;如果沒(méi)有感性，就要理性;如果沒(méi)有理性，就要有自知之明;如果連這個(gè)都沒(méi)有了，她只有不幸。
If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
20.一段不被接受的愛(ài)情，需要的不是傷心，而是時(shí)間，一段可以用來(lái)遺忘的時(shí)間。一顆被深深傷了的心，需要的不是同情，而是理解。
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.
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