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說(shuō)別人喜歡聽(tīng)的話
一位牧師正在向周?chē)囊蝗郝?tīng)眾講解教義。牧師的聲音很好聽(tīng)，而且他能把那些平常令非教徒感覺(jué)枯燥無(wú)味的教義講解得非常生動(dòng)。他說(shuō)：“上帝深?lèi)?ài)著他的每一位子民，并且給予了他們同樣公平的機(jī)會(huì)和能力，只不過(guò)有的人對(duì)深藏在自己體內(nèi)的能力發(fā)掘得較早，而有的人則晚一點(diǎn)而已。只要不放棄，每個(gè)人都會(huì)得到上帝的幫助。”最后他以一句非常富有感情的話作為這次講解教義的結(jié)束語(yǔ)：“共同努力吧，每一位上帝珍愛(ài)的子民，每一位從天而降的完美天使!”
當(dāng)牧師準(zhǔn)備走下講壇的時(shí)候，周?chē)娜罕姰?dāng)中有人表示，牧師的講解雖然煽動(dòng)人心，可是卻并沒(méi)有正確地按照事實(shí)說(shuō)話。所以這些人要直接與牧師對(duì)話，希望牧師能夠解答他們心中的疑問(wèn)。牧師表示十分愿意和他們一起面對(duì)難題。
首先向牧師提出疑問(wèn)的是一位嗓門(mén)很大的青年男子。這位男子用右手食指指著自己的塌鼻子對(duì)牧師說(shuō)：“如果像你說(shuō)的那樣，上帝對(duì)他的每一位子民都是公平的，那他為什么把別人塑造成漂亮的天使，而我卻長(zhǎng)著這樣一個(gè)難看的鼻子?”
青年男子的話引起了周?chē)说囊魂囖Z笑。也許他們是在笑能言善辯的牧師遇到了難題，也許是在對(duì)青年男子的自嘲感到好笑，但是他們的這陣笑聲卻更令青年男子感到不開(kāi)心。他認(rèn)為眾人是在嘲笑自己的塌鼻子，所以直直地瞪著牧師，等待牧師的回答。
牧師依然微笑著，依然用自己娓娓動(dòng)聽(tīng)的聲音回答了青年男子的問(wèn)題：“你當(dāng)然也是上帝最珍愛(ài)的完美天使，只不過(guò)在從天而降的時(shí)候，你的鼻子先著地而已。”
牧師的話說(shuō)完，周?chē)娜艘魂嚂?huì)心地微笑。年輕人也聽(tīng)出此時(shí)人們的笑充滿了善意和理解。
接下來(lái)，又有一位天生跛腿的女子也向牧師就自身的生理缺陷提出了疑問(wèn)，她認(rèn)為上帝對(duì)自己極不公平。
牧師用同樣的聲調(diào)和態(tài)度對(duì)眼前這位看上去很自卑的女子說(shuō)：“在你從天而降的時(shí)候，你忘了在降落的過(guò)程中打開(kāi)降落傘，而且你是用單腿著地的。”然后牧師指了指自己的一雙短腿笑著說(shuō)道：“我同樣忘記在降落的過(guò)程中打開(kāi)降落傘，不過(guò)我是雙腿一齊著地的。”
當(dāng)牧師的話音落下之后，講壇下響起了一片掌聲，而那兩位提出疑問(wèn)的青年男女的臉上洋溢著難得的自信笑容。過(guò)去他們總是為自己的一點(diǎn)缺陷而自卑、難過(guò)，可是現(xiàn)在他們可以從容地站在人群當(dāng)中了，因?yàn)樗麄兿嘈牛约和瑯邮巧系壅鋹?ài)的完美天使。
善意而沁人心脾的話，能夠給人以輕松愉悅的感覺(jué)。這種話更容易讓人接受和喜歡，說(shuō)話的人也更容易得到別人的關(guān)注和喜愛(ài)。所以，我們?cè)谄綍r(shí)與人交流時(shí)，實(shí)在是有必要注意自己的說(shuō)話方式，在說(shuō)話之前應(yīng)該好好想想，這句話會(huì)讓別人喜歡，還是讓人心生厭惡。
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非常經(jīng)典有深度的電影英文臺(tái)詞
1.一個(gè)人總要走陌生的路，看陌生的風(fēng)景，聽(tīng)陌生的歌，然后在某個(gè)不經(jīng)意的瞬間，你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)，原本是費(fèi)盡心機(jī)想要忘記的事情真的就那么忘記了。
One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.
2.幸福，不是長(zhǎng)生不老，不是大魚(yú)大肉，不是權(quán)傾朝野。幸福是每一個(gè)微小的生活愿望達(dá)成。當(dāng)你想吃的時(shí)候有得吃，想被愛(ài)的時(shí)候有人來(lái)愛(ài)你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.
3.愛(ài)情是燈，友情是影子，當(dāng)燈滅了，你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)你的周?chē)际怯白印Ｅ笥眩窃谧詈罂梢越o你力量的人。
Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.
4.我愛(ài)你不是因?yàn)槟闶钦l(shuí)，而是我在你面前可以是誰(shuí)。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
5.愛(ài)情，要么讓人成熟，要么讓人墮落。
Love makes man grow up or sink down.
6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重，舉得起放不下的叫負(fù)重。可惜，大多數(shù)人的愛(ài)情，都是負(fù)重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.
7.我們每個(gè)人都生活在各自的過(guò)去中，人們會(huì)用一分鐘的時(shí)間去認(rèn)識(shí)一個(gè)人，用一小時(shí)的時(shí)間去喜歡一個(gè)人，再用一天的時(shí)間去愛(ài)上一個(gè)人，到最后呢，卻要用一輩子的時(shí)間去忘記一個(gè)人。
We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.
8.一個(gè)人一生可以愛(ài)上很多的人，等你獲得真正屬于你的幸福之后，你就會(huì)明白一起的傷痛其實(shí)是一種財(cái)富，它讓你學(xué)會(huì)更好地去把握和珍惜你愛(ài)的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.
9.年輕的時(shí)候會(huì)想要談很多次戀愛(ài)，但是隨著年齡的增長(zhǎng)，終于領(lǐng)悟到愛(ài)一個(gè)人，就算用一輩子的時(shí)間，還是會(huì)嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個(gè)人，體諒這個(gè)人，直到愛(ài)上為止，是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.
10.當(dāng)明天變成了今天成為了昨天，最后成為記憶里不m.okwtrl.com再重要的某一天，我們突然發(fā)現(xiàn)自己在不知不覺(jué)中已被時(shí)間推著向前走，這不是靜止火車(chē)?yán)铮c相鄰列車(chē)交錯(cuò)時(shí)，仿佛自己在前進(jìn)的錯(cuò)覺(jué)，而是我們真實(shí)的在成長(zhǎng)，在這件事里成了另一個(gè)自己。
When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.
11.離開(kāi)我就別安慰我，要知道每一次縫補(bǔ)也會(huì)遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.
12.曾經(jīng)擁有的，不要忘記。不能得到的，更要珍惜。屬于自己的，不要放棄。已經(jīng)失去的，留作回憶。
Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.
13.我喜歡并習(xí)慣了對(duì)變化的東西保持著距離，這樣才會(huì)知道什么是最不會(huì)被時(shí)間拋棄的準(zhǔn)則。比如愛(ài)一個(gè)人，充滿變數(shù)，我于是后退一步，靜靜的看著，直到看見(jiàn)真誠(chéng)的感情。
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.
14.男人的愛(ài)是俯視而生，而女人的愛(ài)是仰視而生。如果愛(ài)情像座山，那么男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多，而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。
Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.
15.好的愛(ài)情是你通過(guò)一個(gè)人看到整個(gè)世界，壞的愛(ài)情是你為了一個(gè)人舍棄世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.
16.在自己面前，應(yīng)該一直留有一個(gè)地方，獨(dú)自留在那里。然后去愛(ài)。不知道是什么，不知道是誰(shuí)，不知道如何去愛(ài)，也不知道可以愛(ài)多久。只是等待一次愛(ài)情，也許永遠(yuǎn)都沒(méi)有人。可是，這種等待，就是愛(ài)情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.
17.有誰(shuí)不曾為那暗戀而痛苦?我們總以為那份癡情很重，很重，是世上最重的重量。有一天，暮然回首，我們才發(fā)現(xiàn)，它一直都是很輕，很輕的。我們以為愛(ài)的很深，很深，來(lái)日歲月，會(huì)讓你知道，它不過(guò)很淺，很淺。最深和最重的愛(ài)，必須和時(shí)日一起成長(zhǎng)。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.
18.在這個(gè)世界上，只有真正快樂(lè)的男人，才能帶給女人真正的快樂(lè)。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness
19.女人如果不性感，就要感性;如果沒(méi)有感性，就要理性;如果沒(méi)有理性，就要有自知之明;如果連這個(gè)都沒(méi)有了，她只有不幸。
If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
20.一段不被接受的愛(ài)情，需要的不是傷心，而是時(shí)間，一段可以用來(lái)遺忘的時(shí)間。一顆被深深傷了的心，需要的不是同情，而是理解。
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.
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